Soltaire

I'm a 18 year old girl with a grown soul but still getting my eyes pried open by wisdom and my head bashed by lessons. I love my life.


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Unnecessary approaches to issues that lack importance.

Being dominate is NOT power, respect is.

I’m tired of this shit. We are not suppose to be like this. We are suppose to be able to speak to each other, if you’re grown, mouth your own words to that person, don’t throw hissy-fits behind closed doors. How’s anyone going to fix something if you don’t open you mouth? “Closed mouths don’t get fed.” But there’s a right way in opening your mouth where it doesn’t step on toes. And the other needs to be mature enough to receive it through love, not disrespect.

Learn how to learn instead of being a brick wall.

This should’ve came in the “being on your own” kit.

I’ve said this too many times, too many. And I’m not here to give lessons, it puts me in an uncomfortable positions but I care too much to be apathetic towards the beings I love…and most importantly, that I live with.

There will always be confrontation if we keep this up. There will never be a quiet day. Think about things rationally. Be here for me while I learn this and I will wholeheartedly be there for you while we teach each other but be willing to take in and set egos and prides aside because it puts blind spots on the “right thing to do.” Defiant attitudes will burn this home down and I will admit my faults. We all need each other so we need to learn how to love each other. So suck it up, and fucking adapt to situations.

I love my roommates. And my roommates need to love each other. Confrontation make living situations uncomfortable and I would love to come home to a happy home. There should not even be reasons for asinine confrontations that does nothing but cause friction.

There’s always a time and place for things.

—this wasn’t a way to disrespect anyone. This wasn’t a port to embarrass anyone. But maybe if you guys read this, instead of hearing my “where’s rent” voice, it’ll hit heart and not smack egos.